Have you ever considered how your child’s spirit can be nurtured through divorce?
Join others who are seeking this new mindful path of divorced parenting. By using The Pro Child WayR, parents will stop reacting to their ex in The Old Way and instead choose to raise their child The Pro Child WayR. By learning to recognize, and then quiet their own ego, parents can save their child from the effects of the typical divorce and nurture their child’s spirit through the process.
What does a child need? A child needs love, patience, kindness, consistency, and consideration. These are not reserved just for children who are a part of in-tact families. These are not reserved for children who’s parents are going through a “friendly divorce.” Every child’s soul deserves this too. Through your mindful approach, you can choose the Pro-Child path for your child.
Your child is watching you when you interact with your ex in front of him or her.
Are you relaxed and smiling?
Your child is hearing what you say about your ex when he/she is in earshot.
Are you saying nice things about the person he/she loves?
When your child is present, EVERY interaction with your ex is a chance to either crush her spirit or nuture it. It’s your choice. Your ex can’t force a smile off of your face. Your ex can’t force you to use irrate language and tone. Your ex can’t force you to engage in an unreasonable exchange.
You can smile.
You can stay calm.
You can walk away.
You can take time to develop the right response.
All it takes is learning to step back and looking at your child. By looking at your child, you’ll quickly be reminded of his or her tender soul that craves to be surrounded by love, not conflict. Not reacting is a learned, mindful practice, but your child is worth it. Your child’s future greatly depends on how you choose to raise her through each moment. When parenting with an ex, choose to parent The Pro Child WayR. I’ve done it. I’ve done it twice. My children are worth me figuring it out and your children are worth it too. I’m here to help you.
- Ellen Kellner
Through The Pro Child WayR: Parenting with an Ex blog, I’m able to show the everyday insights, challenges, and accomplishments of choosing to parent The Pro Child WayR. The blog shows that divorced parenting isn’t just what I teach, it’s what I do and experience everyday. read more…
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An organized collection of articles that surrounds the theme of mindfulness; involving divorce, children, and the world around us. Learn a little, laugh a little, pick and choose what speaks to you. read more…
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This monthly newsletter keep you up to date on the latest Pro-Child Way connections, information, and events. The monthly Divorced Situations section highlights a specific divorced parenting situtation and provides two solutions for handling that issue: the reactive and typical Old Way, and the mindful Pro-Child Way. Through a bit of laughter and self-examination, you’ll be seeing the best Way for your child. read more…
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What divorced parenting situation are you struggling with? Are you caught in the Old Way, struggling to find the The Pro Child WayR of handling a specific situation? If your gut is telling you that there has to be a better way, but you can’t see the solution, Ask Ellen. On a situation by situation basis, Ellen is here to help you find the way to nurture your child through the trickiest of divorced parenting situations. read more…
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